I was recently introduced to a very successful coach who helps practice owners increase their profits. He had worked hard to be successful and he was teaching his clients how to get there too.
He heard about me through a friend and he was interested in working with me, without really understanding specifically what he was looking for. After all, he has it all.
Or does he?
Once we got talking, we identified that despite his physical abundance (in the form of enough money to comfortably retire at under forty), his driver for pushing himself is still coming from a feeling of scarcity.
He wants to feel abundant.
Interestingly, his clients who have graduated from his profit-building business are doing well financially but are feeling .... well ... unfulfilled, and perhaps dare I say it - even bored.
So I am happily going to present to them this week on how to stop pushing and start allowing.
I was doing a final read-through of my manuscript before Lori uploads it to Amazon, and found these words about this important shift.
"Let go of pushing to achieve and having all the answers, thinking you know how to get what you
want. If you did, you would have it. The miracle of manifesting the life of
your dreams is the wonder in not knowing how it will show up, but in knowing
that it will, because it already exists. You don’t truly trust until you take
away the safety net and leap."
"Your mind can only hold limited knowledge. Your soul holds infinite wisdom. You might think
you have the perfect plan to get to where you want to go. But what if there was
a better way or an easier way, and one that leads you to a place that is better
than you could ever imagine?
Therefore, it is important to focus on the outcome of the outcome. Think of something you
want. Imagine that you have focused on this goal and taken the ideal action and
you are now experiencing this goal in your reality.
What does your life look like? What has changed? What are you doing? What do you have?
What are your relationships like? How is your health? How are you helping
people? How do you feel? Who are you being?
This is the outcome of the outcome. This is what you truly desire. There are so many
wonderful and surprising ways this ideal life can show up for you. Let go of
knowing exactly how it’s going to happen. You choose the what and let go of the
That does not mean you don’t still act. The action will be inspired by asking the right
questions. Questions like, ‘Who can I serve today?’ and ‘How will I use my
talents or do something fun?’ "
Have you been pushing to make things happen?
Perhaps, you are ready to let go and allow?