November 23, 2021

๐ˆ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ž๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ซ๐ž๐๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐œ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ, ๐›๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ“ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ. โฃ

And, this has been the most rewarding thing I have ever done. โฃ

Knowing. Being. And loving who you are. Is everything. โฃ

NOT knowing, NOT being, and NOT loving who you are is soul-destroying.โฃย 

In 2015 I was running 3 businesses, one of them global which had me travelling monthly. Our children were 17, 16 and 11 and my husband was travelling for work even more than me. โฃ

I loved my work, my colleagues, and my clientsโ€ฆโฃ

but I had become a slave to them.โฃย 

Hereโ€™s the thingโ€ฆโฃ

It was completely my fault.โฃ

I made myself constantly available, from the time I woke up in the morning until the time I went to sleep at night.โฃ

My gnawing driver was that I wanted to help people get what they wanted (I still do)โฃ

But the difference between then and now was that I felt responsible for their outcomesโ€ฆ ย โฃ

AND their feelings. โฃ

I was attempting the impossible. โฃ

I was working tirelessly to keep OTHER people happy 100% of the time, and if I didnโ€™t succeed, I would beat myself up.โฃ

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Here was the un-intended consequenceโ€ฆโฃ

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I started to resent the thing I loved the most.โฃ

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The truth is, that people will treat you the way you allow them to.โฃ

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Without realizing it, I allowed people to become dependent on me. โฃ

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๐ˆ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐๐ž๐.โฃ

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And my self worth was attached to it.โฃ

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When my mother passed away in 2016, I was heart broken.ย 

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My Mum loved her family so deeply that she would sacrifice her own well being to help them. โฃ

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I could finally see that I was following in her footsteps and knew that she would not want me to compromise my health as a result, as happened to her. โฃ

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As I started to say โ€œNo thank youโ€ to the things I no longer enjoyed, I made space for this idea to drop inโ€ฆโฃย 

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For my entire life I had been a People Pleaser.โฃ

And now, it was time for me to only say โ€œYesโ€ to things that made me truly happy.โฃ

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I made it a priority to feed my own Soul above everything and everyone else.โฃ

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It was such a strong feeling that I knew in that moment that I would help other women do the same. โฃ

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Some people immediately supported the idea and some laughed at it (the thing the old me would have feared the most).โฃ

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But wild horsesย 

ย couldnโ€™t have stopped me from moving forward. โฃ

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And thus, Soul Pleaser was born.โฃ

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A myriad of opportunities came my way carving out the path for me to help women let go of the need for approval and experience true self love.โฃ

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To date, more than 240 incredible women have gone through my signature program, โ€œFrom People Pleaser To Soul Pleaserโ€.โฃ

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It has been nothing short of life-changing to witness the transformations weโ€™ve seen inside the programโ€ฆโฃ

  • Women breaking free of worrying about moneyโฃย and attracting more of it into their lives
  • Women letting go of resentment towards a loved one and feeling more connected to them than ever
  • Women discovering their purpose and having the confidence to follow through with itโฃ
  • ย Women finding peace of mind instead of constantly over thinkingโฃย 
  • Women knowing exactly what to do next instead of second-guessing themselvesโฃ
  • ย Women being unapologetically themselvesโฃ

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I am indescribably grateful for the transformations I get to witness daily. โฃ

If you are reading this and feel that now is your time to step into your authentic power, we should talk.ย 

Email me at tracy@soulpleaser.com with the words โ€œSoul Pleaserโ€ ย in the suject line and we can find a time to discover if this is exactly what you have been looking for to allow you to finally live the life you have always craved.โฃ

Love

Tracy x