๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ฅ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ, ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ. โฃ
And, this has been the most rewarding thing I have ever done. โฃ
Knowing. Being. And loving who you are. Is everything. โฃ
NOT knowing, NOT being, and NOT loving who you are is soul-destroying.โฃย
In 2015 I was running 3 businesses, one of them global which had me travelling monthly. Our children were 17, 16 and 11 and my husband was travelling for work even more than me. โฃ
I loved my work, my colleagues, and my clientsโฆโฃ
but I had become a slave to them.โฃย
Hereโs the thingโฆโฃ
It was completely my fault.โฃ
I made myself constantly available, from the time I woke up in the morning until the time I went to sleep at night.โฃ
My gnawing driver was that I wanted to help people get what they wanted (I still do)โฃ
But the difference between then and now was that I felt responsible for their outcomesโฆ ย โฃ
AND their feelings. โฃ
I was attempting the impossible. โฃ
I was working tirelessly to keep OTHER people happy 100% of the time, and if I didnโt succeed, I would beat myself up.โฃ
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Here was the un-intended consequenceโฆโฃ
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I started to resent the thing I loved the most.โฃ
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The truth is, that people will treat you the way you allow them to.โฃ
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Without realizing it, I allowed people to become dependent on me. โฃ
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๐ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐.โฃ
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And my self worth was attached to it.โฃ
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When my mother passed away in 2016, I was heart broken.ย
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My Mum loved her family so deeply that she would sacrifice her own well being to help them. โฃ
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I could finally see that I was following in her footsteps and knew that she would not want me to compromise my health as a result, as happened to her. โฃ
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As I started to say โNo thank youโ to the things I no longer enjoyed, I made space for this idea to drop inโฆโฃย
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For my entire life I had been a People Pleaser.โฃ
And now, it was time for me to only say โYesโ to things that made me truly happy.โฃ
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I made it a priority to feed my own Soul above everything and everyone else.โฃ
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It was such a strong feeling that I knew in that moment that I would help other women do the same. โฃ
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Some people immediately supported the idea and some laughed at it (the thing the old me would have feared the most).โฃ
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But wild horsesย
ย couldnโt have stopped me from moving forward. โฃ
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And thus, Soul Pleaser was born.โฃ
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A myriad of opportunities came my way carving out the path for me to help women let go of the need for approval and experience true self love.โฃ
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To date, more than 240 incredible women have gone through my signature program, โFrom People Pleaser To Soul Pleaserโ.โฃ
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It has been nothing short of life-changing to witness the transformations weโve seen inside the programโฆโฃ
- Women breaking free of worrying about moneyโฃย and attracting more of it into their lives
- Women letting go of resentment towards a loved one and feeling more connected to them than ever
- Women discovering their purpose and having the confidence to follow through with itโฃ
- ย Women finding peace of mind instead of constantly over thinkingโฃย
- Women knowing exactly what to do next instead of second-guessing themselvesโฃ
- ย Women being unapologetically themselvesโฃ
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I am indescribably grateful for the transformations I get to witness daily. โฃ
If you are reading this and feel that now is your time to step into your authentic power, we should talk.ย
Email me at tracy@soulpleaser.com with the words โSoul Pleaserโ ย in the suject line and we can find a time to discover if this is exactly what you have been looking for to allow you to finally live the life you have always craved.โฃ
Love
Tracy x
