𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫, 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝟓 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬.
And, this has been the most rewarding thing I have ever done.
Knowing. Being. And loving who you are. Is everything.
NOT knowing, NOT being, and NOT loving who you are is soul-destroying.
In 2015 I was running 3 businesses, one of them global which had me travelling monthly. Our children were 17, 16 and 11 and my husband was travelling for work even more than me.
I loved my work, my colleagues, and my clients…
but I had become a slave to them.
Here’s the thing…
It was completely my fault.
I made myself constantly available, from the time I woke up in the morning until the time I went to sleep at night.
My gnawing driver was that I wanted to help people get what they wanted (I still do)
But the difference between then and now was that I felt responsible for their outcomes…
AND their feelings.
I was attempting the impossible.
I was working tirelessly to keep OTHER people happy 100% of the time, and if I didn’t succeed, I would beat myself up.
Here was the un-intended consequence…
I started to resent the thing I loved the most.
The truth is, that people will treat you the way you allow them to.
Without realizing it, I allowed people to become dependent on me.
𝐈 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐝.
And my self worth was attached to it.
When my mother passed away in 2016, I was heart broken.
My Mum loved her family so deeply that she would sacrifice her own well being to help them.
I could finally see that I was following in her footsteps and knew that she would not want me to compromise my health as a result, as happened to her.
As I started to say “No thank you” to the things I no longer enjoyed, I made space for this idea to drop in…
For my entire life I had been a People Pleaser.
And now, it was time for me to only say “Yes” to things that made me truly happy.
I made it a priority to feed my own Soul above everything and everyone else.
It was such a strong feeling that I knew in that moment that I would help other women do the same.
Some people immediately supported the idea and some laughed at it (the thing the old me would have feared the most).
But wild horses
couldn’t have stopped me from moving forward.
And thus, Soul Pleaser was born.
A myriad of opportunities came my way carving out the path for me to help women let go of the need for approval and experience true self love.
To date, more than 240 incredible women have gone through my signature program, “From People Pleaser To Soul Pleaser”.
It has been nothing short of life-changing to witness the transformations we’ve seen inside the program…
- Women breaking free of worrying about money and attracting more of it into their lives
- Women letting go of resentment towards a loved one and feeling more connected to them than ever
- Women discovering their purpose and having the confidence to follow through with it
- Women finding peace of mind instead of constantly over thinking
- Women knowing exactly what to do next instead of second-guessing themselves
- Women being unapologetically themselves
I am indescribably grateful for the transformations I get to witness daily.
If you are reading this and feel that now is your time to step into your authentic power, we should talk.
Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org with the words “Soul Pleaser” in the suject line and we can find a time to discover if this is exactly what you have been looking for to allow you to finally live the life you have always craved.